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S/M 101

This 391 page book by Jay Wiseman is one of the most popular books for learning about the fundamentals of safe and the exciting aspects of the SM world. It covers topics ranging from finding partners to erotic torture to finding help with problems. A must have for those wishing to explore the sensual side of play and pain.

Erotic Bondage Handbook

This 320 page book by Jay Wiseman is one of the most comprehensive books on the subject of Bondage using Rope. However this book is really enjoyable and a great reference because many of the techniques and philosophies apply to all forms of bondage play.

Sexually Dominant Woman

This 83 page book by Lady Green is a workbook for nervous beginners. If you are new or just looking to refine your ability to sexually dominate the man in your life, this book is for you. It covers topics from what is domination to after affects of your dominance.

The Mistress Manual

This 171 page book by Mistress Lorelei provides an indepth look at the different type of Mistress's a female can be, from the nursemaid to the goddess. It also covers an extensive selection of topics and techniques from spanking to chastity to nipple stimulation to bondage. This is one of the most well laid out "How-To's" we have ever had the pleasure to read.

A Charm School For Sissy Maids

This 150 page book by Mistress Lorelei is a well done as here mistress manual. This book is great for those wishing to train a sissy maid or wishing to become an outstanding example of a great sissy maid. So whether you desire to be pleased or wish to be the one pleasing, this book is definitely a must.

Learning The Ropes

Learning the ropes is a 157 page book that is a basic guide to safe and fun S/M lovemaking. It is also one of the most well known books on the subject. It covers topics ranging from "Mind Set" to "Purchasing the right gear".

Family Jewels

140 pages covering the topics of basic male anatomy, negotiation and safewords, play benefits and risks involved, safe sex play and cleaning CBT toys, all very important subjects to cover. There' is a chapter devoted to various CBT toys, including clamps, ball stretchers and spreaders, cock rings and electrical toys. Included are illustrations showing how these toys are to be used, as well as several diagrams on tying up the cock and balls. There's even a chapter on CBT "recipes," guaranteed to provide plenty of ideas for Dom/me(s)!

The Seductive art of Japanese Rope Bondage

175 Pages From ornately decorative to excruciatingly stringent, Japanese rope bondage is an art which has developed over centuries of martial and erotic practice. Now, accomplished Japanese-born pro-domme and bondage practitioner Midori shows step by step how to achieve beautiful and exciting Japanese bondage on a variety of genders and body types. Each chapter starts with a spectacular, tasteful full-color photo of the finished bondage pose - harnesses, hogties, standing and bent-over poses, and more - then goes back and explains with text and line art how each rope and knot is placed to achieve the final result. Readers can use the detailed instructions to experiment safely and erotically with their own partners - or simply enjoy viewing the pictures of Midori`s expertise.

Flogging

This 140 page book is the first and only book we know of focused on flogging in a BDSM sense. Many books have looked at the history and techniques of corporal punishment but in a consensual relationship you'll need different guides. The book is structured to look at different aspects and issues related to flogging using four types of relationships falling under four different sexual orientations. The male top and female bottom chapter looks at the basics of flogging and negotiation. The gay male chapter examines the growth and compromise involved in a long-term SM relationship. The lesbian chapter examines how things can and indeed may well go wrong and how a couple moves pass the problems to explore flogging as a positive sexual activity. The female top and male bottom chapter is done from the point of a professional relationship that has slid into the long-term, serious Ds model. As it is, it is useful for beginners and experienced floggers and floggees who want to think and learn about it all a bit more.

The New Topping Book

Tens of thousands learned the emotional and ethical skills of BDSM topping from the first `Topping Book`. Now in addition to the advice and good humor that made the first edition a classic, the authors tackle some of the issues that have come up for tops in the last six years: on-line domination, the challenges and rewards of `lifestyle` relationships, ensuring our own and our partners` safety, and more. 176 pages long.

The New Bottoming Book

The first `Bottoming Book` taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming - being a submissive, masochist, slave, `boy` or `girl,` or other BDSM recipient - is as much an art as topping. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, has created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated `New Bottoming Book` gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular bottom! New sections on dominance/submission play, bridging the gap from on-line to real-time relationships, the four stages of a scene, and more. 200 pages worth of information.

Screw the Rose, Give me the Thorns

"Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns” is approachable, chatty, and insightful. What makes it truly special is the sheer weight of 277 pages of loving details. There's clear explanations and detailed tutorials for beginners, as general as "safe, sane, and consensual" and as specific as "you will be swinging the whip with your arm pivoting at the shoulder." There's also solid advice, safety measures, steamy suggestions, plenty of black-and-white photographs, useful and humorous drawings, an extensive glossary, and over 900 entries of S/M clothing and equipment vendors, publications, computer bulletin boards, and organizations worldwide. As sadomasochism is a practice that's still taboo for many people, the chapter on finding partners and sharing your fantasies with existing partners can be invaluable.

The Complete Spanker

Written for both those who do BDSM and those who simply enjoy spanking, this is a well-written and easily accessible book for both beginners and experts regardless of the side of the palm or paddle you like. Several issues covered are emotional reasons, physical safety, sexual desires, comfort for both spanker and spankee, as well as suggestions on how to incorporate spanking into your love life. Iit can give you good insights into issues you should consider before bending over or taking a whack at your partners butt. 96 Pages

A Hand in the Bush

There is a difference between sex and really GOOD sex, and that the difference demands 120 pages explaining the deep details of what the other person is feeling, physically and emotionally. Interesting sex is about communication, using rhythm, time, sensation, and mood as language. The woman who wrote this book does an excellent job of describing why one fists or gets fisted in the first place. As aggressive as fisting sounds she makes it very clear that it can be an incredibly intimate experience, requiring tenderness, empathy, and patience. If you already are into it, or if you're thinking about getting into it, or your partner wants you to think about getting into it...then buy this book.

The Ethical Slut

This book uses 288 pages to really lay it on the line and explain the world of non monogamous relationships and the issues. It gives great helpful hints to think about, whether you are just considering this lifestyle or have been very active in this for a long time. It details how happy you can be in a very non threatening way. That honesty is the biggest issue in dealing with the jealous feeling and in this day and age SAFE SEX. But this book still deals with the primary relationship and how this form of lifestyle could possibly be very rewarding and very helpful to that primary relationship as long as the honesty is there. The authors really explains these issues very well and made this a very interesting and enjoyable read no matter how you feel about this , whether this lifestyle is up your alley or you are just curious

The Strap-On Book

I've read a couple of sex manuals that deal with toys, but this is the first one I've seen that gives equal time to all genders--and I do mean all. The author includes information for MTF and FTM trans-gendered people in a matter-of-fact way. All sexual orientations are treated with equal respect as well. Along with the detailed information about health, safety, negotiation, and shopping tips, there are some sexy little erotic stories that show all different kinds of couples using strap-ons covered in the 144 page book.

KinkyCrafts

Kinkycrafts contains 99 "Do it Yourself" S&M projects organized into six major catagories: bondage furniture, pain toys, flagellation toys, restraints, sexual toys and unclassifiable (items like tongue condoms and tool racks). It’s 200 pages explain each project, has instructions, a materials list, cost estimate, time estimate and a picture. The pictures are useful to see the end product, the instructions are easy to follow, the materials lists are good to get your started and the cost/time estimates are fairly accurate.

When Someone You Love is Kinky

One of the hardest things about being "kinky" is trying to find a way to tell your friends, relatives, lovers, etc about your "alternative lifestyle." Some choose not to, because of the fear they will be ridiculed or ostracized by those close to them. “When Someone You Love Is Kinky” is a wonderful book to give to a friend or lover to explain to them some of the reasons why you enjoy this lifestyle. The authors take a calm and understanding approach in this book, perfect for non-kinky readers who might wonder why their otherwise "normal-looking" relative takes such delight in activities they themselves may be uncomfortable with. If you've been searching for ways to explain your "kink" to a "non-kinky" person, this book is a great place to start. 156 pages

Turning Pro

An essential manual for anybody who has ever considered a career as a phone sex operator, escort, call girl, exotic dancer, adult film performer or any other kind of sex worker. Covered in this 160 page book are explaination of the actual details of sex work; how to get a job, how to keep yourself safe, how much you can expect to make, how to plan your exit strategy, and more... as well as dozens of juicy anecdotes about life is like between the sheets. The author, Magdalene Meretrix has worked as a prostitute, escort, phone sex worker, professional submissive, and porn film actress.

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women

The first 150 page self-help manual for women about anal sex. Recommended by such notables as Howard Stern and featured on Lovelines. The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women is informative, sexy, and inspirational. Tristan Taormino has put together a wealth of taboo-busting insight, erotic technique, health and safety information. The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women offers comprehensive information on all aspects of anal eroticism and health:

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men

From the publishers of the best-selling “Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women” comes this 250 page companion book for men. Among the topics covered are safety, preparation, and hygiene; how to give and receive anal pleasure; building trust and communicating desires; and choosing toys, accessories, and safe-sex supplies. An extensive resource guide of books, videos, and Web sites is also included.